Embracing the Journey of Being a Second Mom
Every day, I wake up and hit the ground running. If you’re raising young kids, especially as a second mom, you know there’s no such thing as a slow start. These days, staying in bed past 6:30 a.m. feels like a luxury. Life is busy, often exhausting—but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
God has truly blessed our family. He’s entrusted us with a house full of children to love, raise, and grow with. Ever since I was a little girl, I dreamed of becoming a mom. What I didn’t understand then was how beautifully complex that calling would become—or that I’d one day proudly carry the title of Second Mom.
Discovering My Calling as a Second Mom
I first heard the phrase “Second Mom” during a church service. A pastor’s wife shared her story of longing for children and how she came to realize she had become a mother to many, though not through childbirth. That moment struck a chord in my heart. It gave a name to something I had already been living but hadn’t yet understood.
For me, being a Second Mom means loving and raising children I didn’t carry in my womb, but who are forever in my heart. While I gave birth to my oldest, now nearly 15, I longed to experience the journey of pregnancy and parenting alongside someone I loved. When I met my husband, I envisioned us creating a child together and building that dream. But God had another plan.
Learning to Love Outside the Lines
That plan included becoming a Second Mom—again and again. And although I didn’t always understand it, I now see how God has uniquely shaped my heart to love, nurture, and fight for children, regardless of biology. Each of my children is mine. They are deeply loved, fiercely protected, and held in my heart as if they’ve always been there.
Being a Second Mom isn’t a lesser calling—it’s a sacred one. And while the journey hasn’t been easy, it has been full of growth, grace, and purpose.
A Place for Second Moms to Belong
Over the past few years, I’ve grown tremendously as a mother, a wife, and a woman of faith. God’s plan was so much greater than what I could have imagined. That’s why I created this space—not just for me, but for other moms walking this road. Whether you’re a biological mom, an adoptive mom, a foster mom, or navigating the unique role of Second Mom, you belong here.
This blog is a place where you can find encouragement, resources, and community. When I discover something that helps our family thrive—whether it’s a parenting tip, a faith-based resource, or a wellness strategy—I’ll share it here. We’re an unconventional family guided by Jesus, focused on character-building, and always seeking connection.
What’s Next for Our Family
Right now, I’m exploring homeschooling as our youngest heads toward kindergarten. I’m also working hard to launch my coaching business—a passion rooted in helping others live healthy, purposeful lives. As I learn and grow, I’ll bring you along with me.
At Brave and Blended Living, I want to offer something rare in today’s world: real hope. As Second Moms, we carry heavy loads and deep love. Let’s walk this journey together, lifting one another up.
If you’re looking for a supportive place to find community and a tribe of people who get you, join the Brave & Blended Community!
Thanks for being here.
With love and courage,
Lindsey
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